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Delta Factor
updated: Oct 16, 2010, 10:00 AM

Dear Edda,

My girlfriend and I have been living together for about six months. She is a painfully neat person, and I am just regular.

Every Saturday, she spends half the day scrubbing and cleaning our apartment. She gets pissed at me because I don't help her. She thinks that because we live together, I should help out with the housecleaning. But I tell her that since I don’t care about whether the house is clean or not, I shouldn't have to help.

Yesterday, she said I have the neatness standards of Delta House. I don't know what that means. Is that bad?

Signed,
Regular Guy

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Dear Regular Guy,

Yeah, it's pretty bad.

Edda


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