COMMENT 320984
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2012-09-17 08:21 AM |
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But since you are the guy that helps her get out of marriages, if you are married to her, she won't have anyone to get her out and she will have to stay married to you! I see a lifetime of happiness ahead for you both.
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COMMENT 320701
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2012-09-16 09:48 AM |
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Go for it and if it works then that is great but don't invest your whole heart into it until you KNOW it's safe to do so. Nothing wrong with being the "go to" guy if you are okay with it and you never know, maybe you truly ARE the one... why not see what happens?
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COMMENT 320656
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2012-09-16 08:14 AM |
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I do not see the problem here. Failed marriages are the norm, long steady ones the rarity. read the Hollywood gossip columns. One more toss up makes no difference in the long run.
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COMMENT 320641
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2012-09-16 07:36 AM |
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There are always two sides of the story. I would be curious to talk to the x husbands. She may not be telling you the truth about her marriage(s) "falling apart" Don't ever trust someone that cheats with YOU, to not eventually cheat on YOU!
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COMMENT 320634
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2012-09-16 07:18 AM |
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Hit and run!
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COMMENT 320583
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2012-09-15 06:56 PM |
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What's wrong with a simple hello and a quick sport thingy? Then seeya.
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COMMENT 320548
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2012-09-15 04:49 PM |
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sorry for your assumptions 537. I have a long time woman. I just can see through the bs most women sling at us men. you just hate all men. See how that works?
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COMMENT 320540
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2012-09-15 03:58 PM |
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For the first time ever, I actually agree with Edda. Run far far away!
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COMMENT 320537
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2012-09-15 03:43 PM |
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455 has said in longhand what 426 said in shorthand. Bad bet, buddy. And 469 doesn't like women--at all. Shame.
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COMMENT 320521
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2012-09-15 03:00 PM |
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Dear Old Flame, You sound like you are judging her when you say she's in ANOTHER failed marriage. How have your marriages/relationships been any better? Unofficial EDDA
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COMMENT 320516
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2012-09-15 02:48 PM |
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RUN
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COMMENT 320510P
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2012-09-15 02:38 PM |
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Yep, have a fling and that's all. Or tell her straight out why not.
Edda got it right, with concision.
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COMMENT 320492
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2012-09-15 02:00 PM |
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Run like he77. Don't get involved with people who are married. Don't get involved with people who are separated. Don't get involved with people who have been divorced less than a year. Don't get involved with people who have been divorced twice regardless of how long it's been. Run.
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COMMENT 320485P
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2012-09-15 01:40 PM |
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If she'll cheat WITH you, she can also cheat ON you.
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COMMENT 320548
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2012-09-15 01:16 PM |
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^ totally agree with 455. Her cycle of lies and cheating will never end you will just be another one of the fools to fall for her tricks. But I would consider it ok for you to fool around with her just don't make it a relationship and see how long she sticks around could be a win win for you. Free sex can be good. Because most of the time it will cost you plenty... and I don't just mean $
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COMMENT 320455
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2012-09-15 12:46 PM |
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First of all you need to differentiate between love and lust. Love is when you truly are committed to the well being of another. If she had an affair with you when she was still married twice, and who knows how many others she had an affair with, then when she gets bored with you in a committed relationship you know in your heart she will find someone else to fulfill her fantasies. This is a woman you want to RUN from Don't waste your time, you are 42yrs old. Find a woman with values and morals that will love and respect not only you, but her marriage vows. Quit fooling around with married women, it's dangerous in more ways than one and really indicates a character flaw that you need to address.
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COMMENT 320435
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2012-09-15 12:10 PM |
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You're clearly her "rebound guy". Of course she loves you when her alternative is to be alone and face herself or stay in her rotten marriages. Hey, if you liked helping her out of her last marriage only to see her wave goodbye to you too then repeat your actions of the past and don't expect anything different. Repeating your mistakes expecting different results.... well, it doesn't speak well of you. I know this thread is contrived and I can't believe I post to it regularly. See? Nobody's perfect.
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COMMENT 320537
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2012-09-15 11:59 AM |
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It's kind of sad when people are so challenged to recognize a bad bet. This woman has had how many failed relationships? And you think you're going to be "The One?" Danger, Danger, Will Robinson!
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COMMENT 320424P
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2012-09-15 11:56 AM |
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320413 - communication, trust, shared interests, similar living habits, are more important than looks.
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COMMENT 320419
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2012-09-15 11:48 AM |
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Go for it!
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COMMENT 320413
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2012-09-15 11:38 AM |
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It sounds like she loves you. Go for it, but don't start buying her things. Another thing is that she may not look the same way she did in the past especially if she had children, which could reduce your attraction to her.
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