Edhat
npr edvertisers
visitors movie times

Santa Barbara Weather: 73.3°F | Humidity: 60% | Pressure: 29.78in ( Falling) | Conditions: Clear | Wind Direction: ENE | Wind Speed: 4.7mph [see map]

Free Newsletter
Advertise
  login  twitter  facebook  RSS 
 
 
login
    13854 Subscribers
      820 Paid (5.9%)
     391 Comments
     190 Commenters
     78066 Page Views
 
 

 
Order Local Food
Order Local Food
 
The Winehound
The Winehound
 
We Love Trees!
We Love Trees!
 
Dog Training for Inquisitive Canines
Dog Training for Inquisitive Canines
 
SantaBarbaraYP.com
SantaBarbaraYP.com
 
CA Wine Festival
CA Wine Festival
 
Advertise on Edhat
Advertise on Edhat
 
News Events Referrals Deals Classifieds Comments About

Subscriber Comments for
Overactive Self-Esteem

Comments in order of when they were received | (reverse order)

 COMMENT 78986P helpful negative off topic

2010-05-29 10:06 AM

You can do your art work and go to school. Go to Art School, major in Art History, learn to be an art teacher......something else besides just working on your art. There are a lot of amazing artists out there that are starving artists and it's good to have a back up plan!!!

p.s. no that money is not yours ~ it's money of your parents that they set aside for your college. Use it for college ~ you are blessed to have it!!

 

 COMMENT 78989 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-29 10:14 AM

Speaking as one artist to another- being an artist isn't easy. It's hard work and it goes beyond just creating the work. It's a business like anything else. Please go to college and at least get a basic education. You can always work on your art while in school.
Your parents are right- at least go to the City College.

 

 COMMENT 79003 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-29 12:01 PM

I have worked with and hired many artists. I ALWAYS hire the ones who are not only good artists, but who took the time to become professional as well. They understand that most artists need to be commercial, and work with the client, that we hate 'I'm more creative than you' attitudes, that we know our products and our clients. Getting a college education is one way to expand your horizons and grow up. Anyone with too much self-esteem definitely could benefit from some maturity and humility. Maybe you could even take some classes in a subject you weren't so gifted in so that you could understand what hard work really is?

 

 COMMENT 79010 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-29 12:34 PM

As an advice colunmist, Edda sure didn't earn a paycheck with this one.

 

 COMMENT 79038P helpful negative off topic

2010-05-29 03:04 PM

Sometimes I wonder if the questions in this column are made up by Edda as an attempt at humor.

 

 COMMENT 79049 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-29 04:34 PM

Consider the wisdom attributed to Will Rodgers : "an artist is the only thing you can say you are and nobody can say you ain't".

 

 COMMENT 79057 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-29 05:38 PM

As long as you fully pay your own way, you get to do whatever you want. It is that simple.

 

 COMMENT 79057 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-29 05:42 PM

Check out the Display Installation program at SBCC SOMA. It lets you be artistic while being gainfully employed, with enough demand for your services that you can be a real artist in your spare time.

 

 COMMENT 79088 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-29 10:23 PM

Come up to I Madonnari and look for the Edhat square. I can introduce to a few great commercial artists that are cool and easy to talk too. Or take the advice of the first three comments.

 

 COMMENT 79098 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-30 07:00 AM

Sure, be an "artist". Whatever. Most of the sucessful ones make it after death however so unless if you have a way of coming back for all that dough, forget it.

 

 COMMENT 79098 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-30 08:07 AM

Your mother is right

 

 COMMENT 79125 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-30 08:55 AM

"It's MY money...."

typical attitude, but then again, I blame the parents

 

 COMMENT 79140 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-30 10:09 AM

You can make a good living as a commercial artist. Get a bachelor's degree in whatever you want, doesn't have to be art. You'll need that degree to get in the door most places. I learned that by age 25.

 

 COMMENT 79057 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-30 10:35 AM

I think you have an under-developed sense of responsibility, not an over-inflated sense of self-esteem. Getting an A on a high-school diorama is not going to put food on your table after you blow through mommy and daddy's money. Tell them thank you for the money they saved and yes, you will do your best at college which is what they saved the money for.

Otherwise, they should take that money and spend it on themselves. It was theirs that they choose to save for a specific purpose. You have now stated you don't want the money for that purpose so it reverts back to them to use how they see fit.

Offer ->Counter offer-> Rejection of counter-offer. Contact fails. Consideration reverts to first party. You over-played your hand.

 

 COMMENT 79154 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-30 11:09 AM

Comment 79058- What is the Display Installation program at SBCC SOMA? I can't find it at the SBCC website. Thanks

 

 COMMENT 79057 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-30 12:20 PM

Exhibit and Display Design - SBCC Art Department

 

 COMMENT 79193 helpful negative off topic

2010-05-30 03:38 PM

In the long run you might be doing your parents a favor by skipping college. On the other hand if you qualify for a scholarship college might be worth thinking about. Otherwise it's awful expensive these days and you're loosing a paycheck during the years spent in school. For people who want to get into high paying professions such as law or engineering college is worth it.

 

12% of comments on this page were made by Edhat Community Members.

 

 QUESTION ABOUT A COMMENT?

See a comment that you think should be deleted?? See a comment that was deleted, that you think shouldn't have been? Email ed@edhat.com. Thanks!

# # # #

 

Add Your Comments

Edhat Username

password (email)

Comment

Don't have an Account?

Don't know if you have an account?

Don't remember your account info?

CLICK HERE


ENJOY HAPPY HOUR! ... Between 4:00pm & 5:00pm only happy comment are allowed on the Edhat Comments Board.

If you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all.

 
Hide Your Handle, but show paid status (paid subscribers only)
NEW - use verified name and picture (contact ed@edhat.com to be verified)
Find out About Becoming A Paid Subscriber
NOTE: We are testing a new Comment Preview Page. You must hit OK on the next page to have your comment go live. Send Feedback to ed@edhat.com.
 

get a handle   |  lost handle

 

EDHAT COMMENTS POLICY

 

Send this article to a friend
Your Email  
Friend's Email  


[ easy-to-print version of this page ]

 

 

  Home Subscribe FAQ Jobs Contact copyright © 2003-2011  
Edhat, Inc.